ESFJ - "Seller". Most sociable of all types. Nurturer of harmony. Outstanding host or hostesses. 12.3% of total population.

Per my reading of "The Meade Feed' I chose to take a few minutes and find/ take a Myers-Briggs personality test online just to see if I was still the same as I have been when I've taken it in the past. I cannot exactly remember what my other test scores revealed, but I do know that they were along these same lines....

I don't necessarily agree with the description of "seller," because in most cases, I steer clear of any situation in which I am depended on to sell. However, I do like to be a part of things (i.e. clubs, organizations, groups) and therefore rather enjoy "selling" those to other people and getting them to join with me.

Here's a very in depth description (well, some of the highlights at least) of all that I am supposed to be as an ESFJ:

Portrait of an ESFJ - Extraverted Sensing Feeling Judging: (Extraverted Feeling with Introverted Sensing)
The Caregiver

As an ESFJ, your primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit in with your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion.

ESFJs are people persons - they love people. They are warmly interested in others. They use their Sensing and Judging characteristics to gather specific, detailed information about others, and turn this information into supportive judgments. (In fact, I do!) They want to like people, and have a special skill at bringing out the best in others. They are extremely good at reading others, and understanding their point of view. The ESFJ's strong desire to be liked and for everything to be pleasant makes them highly supportive of others. People like to be around ESFJs, because the ESFJ has a special gift of invariably making people feel good about themselves. (What a nice thing to say!)

The ESFJ takes their responsibilities very seriously, and is very dependable. They value security and stability, and have a strong focus on the details of life. (I do LOVE me some details!)

ESFJs are warm and energetic. They are very giving people, who get a lot of their personal satisfaction from the happiness of others. They want to be appreciated for who they are, and what they give. They're very sensitive to others, and freely give practical care. ESFJs are such caring individuals, that they sometimes have a hard time seeing or accepting a difficult truth about someone they care about. (Yes, this has happened to me more than once.)

With Extraverted Feeling dominating their personality, ESFJs are focused on reading other people. They have a strong need to be liked, and to be in control. They are extremely good at reading others, and often change their own manner to be more pleasing to whoever they're with at the moment. (I don't claim that these are all healthy behaviors...)

The ESFJ's value system is defined externally. They usually have very well-formed ideas about the way things should be, and are not shy about expressing these opinions. However, they weigh their values and morals against the world around them, rather than against an internal value system. They may have a strong moral code, but it is defined by the community that they live in, rather than by any strongly felt internal values. (As much as I would like to deny this, unfortunately it does ring very true for me. Luckily, I also try to allow Jesus to be my "community.")

ESFJs who have had the benefit of being raised and surrounded by a strong value system that is ethical and centered around genuine goodness will most likely be the kindest, most generous souls who will gladly give you the shirt off of their back without a second thought.

All ESFJs have a natural tendency to want to control their environment. Their dominant function demands structure and organization, and seeks closure. ESFJs are most comfortable with structured environments. They're not likely to enjoy having to do things which involve abstract, theoretical concepts, or impersonal analysis. They do enjoy creating order and structure, and are very good at tasks which require these kinds of skills. ESFJs should be careful about controling people in their lives who do not wish to be controlled. (This has actually been on my mind lately!)

ESFJs respect and believe in the laws and rules of authority, and believe that others should do so as well. They're traditional, and prefer to do things in the established way, rather than venturing into unchartered territory. Their need for security drives their ready acceptance and adherence to the policies of the established system. This tendency may cause them to sometimes blindly accept rules without questioning or understanding them.

ESFJs incorporate many of the traits that are associated with women in our society. However, male ESFJs will usually not appear feminine at all. On the contrary, ESFJs are typically quite conscious about gender roles and will be most comfortable playing a role that suits their gender in our society. Male ESFJs will be quite masculine (albeit sensitive when you get to know them), and female ESFJs will be very feminine. (Interesting!)

ESFJs at their best are warm, sympathetic, helpful, cooperative, tactful, down-to-earth, practical, thorough, consistent, organized, enthusiastic, and energetic. They enjoy tradition and security, and will seek stable lives (oh how true that rings! I so long for a stable, rich life!) that are rich in contact with friends and family.

I venture to say that much, well, almost all of it, is true- mainly because I left out the untrue parts. Perhaps I should have left them and let you all judge for yourselves? Which brings me to this: Do you all agree that I am an ESJF?